Hi Mikael.Nilsson,
On both situatons, if you said exactly how they happened, you will not be penalized by the system, because you only get a crash penalty when you exceed 51 knots.
So, on both cases, if you were almost stopped, than you will not be penalized. If not, than we cannot do anything for you because the system told us that you were at more than 51 knots ground speed.
I must tell you that it's impossible to judge situations like that one. We cannot open exceptions even it's a FS2004 problem.. The system is fair, and we cannot make a special condition that will open situations like that one because it is impossible to cover all those kinds of situation.
I hope you understand.
Regards,