Im new to flying but I will try and help you.
Am I right that you just say in your mike " ehm1281 requesting ifr clearance to etc..."
Yes that what you say to the ATC. For they will reply with your Clearence. YOu might need a pen and paper for that so you can right down what he says.
"report speed control"
Im not sure but I think you have you have to say t othe ATC your speed.
Hope that helped. Oh and put 'New pilot, need help' when your flying. Thats what I do, so if your stuck they will most likely help you.