FMC freaks?? I prefer the term 'nerds'.
0: On a Boeing FMC, the VNAV altitude is constrained by the altitude in the MCP. During climb, VNAV will climb no
higher than the MCP level. For example, the FMC calculates a continuous climb, but the SID tells you to stop at 6000'. You put 6000 in the MCP. When you engage VNAV, the FMC will automatically level off at 6000 and engage ALT mode. To pass control back to the FMC, select a higher alt in the MCP and reselect VNAV. Similarly, on descent, after inputting all that parameters into the FMC, it will calculate the ideal T/D point. Before this point, select your initial descent altitude in the FMC, and leave VNAV engaged. When reaching the T/D, VNAV will begin the descent, but it will level out and engage ALT when you reach the MCP alt.
The FMC will not land the plane. It will fly a non-precision approach. For the aircraft to land itself, you need to use (ideally) all 3 autopilots and APP mode. The FMC (coupled to an engaged autopilot in LNAV and VNAV) will follow the magenta line, and pitch the nose up or down to reach the VNAV track, and adjust the thrust to stay on speed, although you can swap the pitch and thrust roles on descent using the VNAV SPEED descent.
1: To make a detour, use the LEGS page. Type the waypoint name in the scratchpad. Click the left LSK next to the waypoint to insert the detour before. Leave the DISCO if you are not sure where you will be going after that, otherwise 'close the disco'. To delete a waypoint:
For example your route is BPK CLN REDFA. Then you are told to shortcut direct from BPK to REDFA. Press the LSK next to REDFA to put it in the scratchpad. Then press the LSK next to CLN to move it to there. Close the DISCO if one appears. Now CLN has gone from the list.
2: Using the FMC is a lot faster than working it out manually. Press the HOLD key, select the waypoint to hold at, adjust the settings, and LNAV will do the rest.
3: Simply use HDG mode rather than LNAV. The FMC will tell you when you are abeam the previously planned waypoints, should you be interested. To go direct to a waypoint, put it in the scratchpad on the LEGS page, and then press LSK1L.
4: Turning the FMC off would not be a good idea. The FMC will continue to work as normal. If you are not using LNAV or VNAV, then the FMC will not affect the flight directors or the autopilot. Select your runway as usual, and the ILS information will appear on the INIT REF page. Flying the plane manually with the flight directors is good fun and practice.
5: You don't hand control back to the FMC for an autolanding. An autolanding is NOT made in LNAV and VNAV modes, but in SPEED and APP modes with all A/Ps on CMD. On the intercept leg for the ILS, with LNAV and ALT mode or VNAV engaged, press LOC. Wait for LOC capture. Press APP. Check the PFD for annunciations. When you get G/S capture, engage all autopilots and configure for landing.
EDIT: I am now officially very tired so any errors in this post are to be accredited to more cups of coffee than you can count on your fingers and too many hours in front of a screen.
You could try the FMC manual, or the PMDG Ops Wiki.
I hope I helped a bit. Good luck on the big iron.