Hi Bastiaan,
A very short crash (

) course:
You should "aim" for a point in line with the runway (having ILS capability), around 15nm away from the runway threshold, around 2000 ft above the runway altitude, and reach this point on a heading < 30 degrees away from the runway heading.
(It may seem difficult, but you can use charts to help or, even easier, use FS flight planner to plan an IFR flight and let the AI controller guide you towards this point.)
While approaching this point, make sure you have NAV1 frequency tuned on the ILS (localizer) and the course set to the runway heading. Important note: this applies to standard FS aircraft or custom aircraft with panels following the standard behaviour, but the EHM fleet comprises panels that need additional and / or different settings, like the A310 or the Bae146.
If you are on the proper course and have your instruments properly set as indicated above, you should notice the following as you approach that "point":
- The lateral deviation indicator closes to 0 (exactly as it happens while intercepting a VOR course)
- The vertical (glideslope) indicator is at its highest position (which means you are way BELOW the glideslope)
When the lateral deviation indicator reaches zero, you are exactly on the runway centerline and you can engage the "APP" function on the autpilot (the exact label may depend from one aircraft to another). In fact, it is better to change your heading manually, closer to the runhay heading, before reaching zero deviation and before engaging APP.
It is important that in the moment you engage APP, you are below the glideslope = glideslope indicator in the upper half of its range. This ensures that the aircraft will first intercept the localizer (in level flight if you have the "hold altitude" autopilot function engaged), then the glideslope (which will cause the "hold altitude" function to disengage automatically).
Note that there are some differences between aircraft of different sizes, weights and cruise speeds but basically this short scenario applies to all (provided they have ILS auto-approach capability)
Also note that while doing the approach on autopilot comes handy, it is not a good idea to leave this function active until touchdown (unless the aircraft has actual auto-land capabilities). Most aircraft require you to disengage the autopilot close to the runway and do the final flare by hand.
One word about backcourse function: this is for landing on a runway without ILS while the reciprocal runway has. It is based on receiving the parasite signal that "escapes" behind the ILS equipment. In this case, the autopilot will hold the course but you cannot use it to follow any glideslope (unless you start below ground level

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One final word, I have myself learned only recently to use ILS autopilot approach, and I did so with the Project Fokker F70 (the same used at EHM), which comes with an excellent demo flight (I am afraid only the Project Fokker download contains it, but I'm not sure). This flight + 3-4 more to practice on my own and that was it!
Good luck
Andrei