Hi,
I had the same problem before but i figured it out yesterday.

in the A330 CFG file, you can scroll down to the [contact points] section, there are 2 sets, one is used only.
below that set, there is another bigger set of points with "//" in front of it.
put "//" on the first set and remove the "//" from the second set, that way, the front gear would be stronger as i tested in my FS.
I tested it at my home airport WSSS, as my scenery for WSSS is quite complex, when i change from cockpit/VC to Tower or Spot view, the plane "jumps" and "bumps" for a good long 30 seconds.
Before i editted the CFG, the plane, as you all have, crash on the start. But now the gear holds out fine;D